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Comment on I Wrote the Book on Single, Bitch! by alienman

alienman — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 08:00:01 +0000

Hey ladies, thanks for the responses! I feel a little less silly now. I missed you guys, too!

Susan: How about you start your own blog and then take that over? LOL You don’t need me to kickstart one for you!

Mica: I’d totally be your unni. I cannot, however, promise to be a good influence

Lucy: *hugs* It’s tough but you don’t need someone who makes you feel like you’re not good enough. A girl like you doesn’t deserve that, no matter how much you’ve let yourself fall apart. I am all too familiar with that place… where I gained a lot of weight, lost motivation and I got my bachelor’s degree in my very late 20s. However, not once would I have justified being lied to about other women and neither should you and I’m glad you’re not letting him get away with it. I’m really glad you opened up about this. I wish you the best of progress in life and in your relationship. I know it feels like you’re swimming through mud but don’t stop moving; don’t let yourself sink further into your funk. It’s a dark and scary place that tries to draw us in.

Comment on So, what are you? by wuzzyangel

wuzzyangel — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 00:58:54 +0000

“WHAT are you?” I think that word “WHAT” is something that would make me prickle up a bit. My reply would be “I’m a human, thank you very much” There are much more tactful ways of asking for ethnicity. I don’t even mind someone saying “So you’re Japanese right?” But to be asked “WHAT” I am… LOL sorry…

Yeah… I like the half conscious ramblings of my TwinStar…

Comment on I Wrote the Book on Single, Bitch! by ke

ke — Mon, 06 Feb 2012 22:17:06 +0000

<3 thanks for sharing

Comment on So, what are you? by kuri

kuri — Sun, 05 Feb 2012 04:23:47 +0000

That totally elucidates the thoughts that go through my mind when someone asks me where I’m from.
I got tired of thinking about it so I just answer American and that I’m ethnically Chinese.

Comment on So, what are you? by Ang

Ang — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 21:00:25 +0000

I’m pretty sure (completely sure) I do this all of the time. Made me think of this video:
http://comedians.jokes.com/steve-byrne/videos/steve-byrne—who-are-you-

Comment on So, what are you? by Jamilla

Jamilla — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:01:31 +0000

HAHAHAHAHA! I’m half Japanese, 25% German, 20% other northern European and 5% Native American. Everyone thinks that I’m everything that I’m not. Hilarious. Don’t let it bother you – in India, they think I’m from Assam or Darjeeling!

Comment on So, what are you? by Mica

Mica — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 13:36:20 +0000

For some reason, I hadn’t noticed that ethnicity seems to count a lot more for me than for my white acquaintances. I totally see your point.

Have you noticed that “Where are you from?” is another sneaky way that people try to ask you about ethnicity in a PC-way? If it’s a friend, I’ll usually tell the long story (“Born in Korea but adopted”), but more often than not, I have some stranger ask me at the store or something. Then I’ll say, “Virginia,” and the inevitable response is, “No, where are you REALLY from?” I’m *really* from Virginia, asshole.

Comment on I Wrote the Book on Single, Bitch! by klaudea

klaudea — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 06:45:06 +0000

I missed you! <3

Comment on I Wrote the Book on Single, Bitch! by susan

susan — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 11:23:29 +0000

you should have started a blog! carol and i could have taken over!

Comment on I Wrote the Book on Single, Bitch! by Mica

Mica — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 04:07:03 +0000

Hey Alienman!

Please be my unni. I didn’t have any growing up. And as a direct consequence, I have no idea how to decorate my monolids or fix my hair. **Sigh**

I would buy “I wrote the book on single, bitches!” fo’ sho’.