Hey, guys! Did you catch the meteor shower last night? Actually, it hasn’t occurred during the time in which I am typing this up. In a couple of hours, we’ll be bundling up in our parkas and driving over to a nearby reservoir. I hope the sky is clear by then.
I yam back! Finals were brutal but it is finally over and I am quite certain at this point that I will be graduating. It has been a hard and much too long of a journey. It has taken me 10 years to complete what others have managed to do in four. So, you can imagine how strange it feels that I am finally done with college. I thought I’d never graduate but it’s really happening.
The boyfriend and I celebrated my Last Day of Finals EVERâ„¢ by going out to sushi with another couple. We followed this with two games of bowling in which I sucked so bad that when I finally got a strike, even my opponents were happy for me. Afterward, we went out for dessert. I love double dates. It’s so cheesy, how much I love them.
The look:

I took these pictures after I got home so I’m actually wearing a different lip color from what I wore on the double date. I should have worn this one out. Nor did I wear this shawl. It was really cold in the house.

I can’t remember what foundation I wore that day. I had just received the Illamasqua Rich Liquid Foundation in the mail but the color seemed so pale and yellow that I was hesitant to wear it. I might just be wearing my usual Silk Naturals.

Thank you, Secret Santa!
We’re doing Secret Santa at NoBrainer, my women’s support forum. My Secret Santa was an early bird; I haven’t even finished shopping for my recipient! She got me all the NYX lip colors and eyeliners I wanted. I couldn’t wait to try them on. Thank you, Secret Santa!

Sephora Lip Gloss in Flushed over NYX Round Lipstick in Fusion
NYX lipsticks are so inexpensive but the colors are so vibrant and opaque. I am also impressed with Sephora’s lip glosses. They’re not sticky at all, nor do they dry out my lips. The color selection is huge and they’re all so gorgeous.

A while back, one of my beauty blogging buddies had sent me this ELF Brightening Eye Color eyeshadow quad. Color me impressed. For a mere dollar, this is a great quad for a lavender smoky eye. There’s definitely more powdery fallout than I’d like but, holy crap, the whole quad costs a buck. I made my look less intense because I didn’t want to intimidate the other couple with my smoldering gaze, HAR HAR.

I got tired of wearing false lashes again. Sadly, my lashes are actually even shorter and less visible than this. You can see this much because I'm wearing Maybelline Lash Stiletto mascara. For a drugstore brand, this mascara is pretty good. Of course, nothing beats a good pair of falsies.
I’m also wearing NYX Jumbo Eye Pencil in Slate and… crap… I forgot what eyeliner that is up there. OMG DUN HATE ME I CAN ONLY THRIVE ON LOVE.
PHOROHORING TYYYM!

Now, here is a picture of me trying to look mysterious and vulnerable, but... like... sexy, too. In truth, I am an open book and I have distributed myself all over the internet for so long that there is nothing mysterious about me.

O snap. You guys like my MONEY SHOT? BWAHAHAHA... omg don't leave me. I so roneryyyy...
I had to censor that because… well… deep down, I still want my mother to be proud of me. I should also have added drool coming out of the corner of my well-tinted mouth.

Finally, a picture of me facing a different direction!
I also want to thank MACnunu for her generous care package of assorted teas, candies, eyeliner and sheet masks. She is one of the most adorable young women I’ve ever met. She’s been pretty sick lately, poor girl, and I hope she’s feeling better!!

There was sooo much stuff!
More thank you’s for making my graduating possible
I want to thank my advisor Lyllye for opening her arms to me on the day I first sought her, and wiping away my tears while telling me that she would help me graduate. I want to thank my amazing boyfriend, who dragged my kicking and screaming butt to every single one of my classes, making sure I stayed motivated to finish every term. I also want to thank my parents for loving me enough to ease up on the pressure and just let me pursue my happiness by my own means and my own choices.
I want to thank my readers who have not given up on GoldfishCake, in spite of the lack of content in the past months. Your words of encouragement have brought me smiles when times were especially tough this past term. You’ve always been an amazing group of people and I consider myself very fortunate that my blog readers are a particularly witty, silly and thoughtful group. I swear, I haven’t deleted the dumb comments or anything.
I want to thank the ladies of NoBrainer. I remember when I first put together that forum. I was worried, for a while, that it might not be a conducive environment for us to be open, honest and helpful to one another. However, it became more than what I had hoped it would be. You ladies have been so supportive to each other and to me when I needed it most. I don’t know about you guys, but I’ve always had a hard time finding Asian-American women whom I could trust and befriend at a long-term, intimate level. Yet, somehow, I have managed to find the most trustworthy friends in all the members of NoBrainer and I can’t express enough how grateful I am.
I also want to thank Costco for just being all around awesome.
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Awwww @ at your “thank you” speech. I’m so proud of you for graduating!! Now you can move on to the next step in your life and I hope more good things come your way. You deserve them.
Alienman, this is such a pretty look! The lavender eyes paired with the berry lips flatter you so much! LOVE it!
Oh, and look at the Secret Santa goodies you got!
Wow, that shawl looks so soft. *caresses alienmans boobs…erh woops I mean shawl!!*
Loving the berry lips paired with the lavender, you look so pretty and well although we know this isn’t true, very feminie and delicate
Argh! Please don’t kill me, I keed I keed! ^o^
Oh Alienman ~
I love you
Congrats on graduating, hopefully that will happen for me soon too XD
Normally Denis and I catch every meteor shower we can but this is finals week for me so I’m cooped up in my house until Saturday
Oh our beloved little alienwoman, we’re so proud of you!! You worked so hard to get to where you are now and I’m looking to you as my inspiration to get my ass moving for law school.
Hope you enjoyed the tea and remember to tell me if the masks work for you, I’ll be happy to send you a box!
p.s. looking very jailbait up there xD
yaaaaaaaaaaaay!!!!!!!!!!!! i’m so excited for you!! i’m so glad i finally came out of the darkness of my creepiness (well i’m not sure i really left it honestly) and asked to join you ladies at nobrainer! <3 i had been a follower of your blog for quite some time honestly, and really admired how intelligent your writing is and how willing you were to bare yourself with your readers. you're such a bundle of talent sey! i'm grateful, after years of stalking, that i can finally call you my friend…
*stalker dance of joy*
that last sentence… is so.. creepy.
LOL Costco!! Love the money shot!! You know I love it when you cam whore you sexy beast you!!! I know I’ve been slacking on the NoBrainer again I’m sorry! But hopefully next year I’ll be able to take part in that SS! LOL!
LOVE YA!
Pretty!! So hoooottt unnie!! (=
I swear you have the best lips around, super sexaay!! They’re just perfect
Ok I should stop obsessing about you lips now lol I sound creepy….
What a sexy look–no camwhoring required!!!
Congrats on Graduating!!
wow! u really know how to flatter ur eyes with lavender baby! I like the red pouty lips and lavender eye combo. Screams sexy to me
Can’t wait for more FOTD or EOTD & lips from ya
i love costco too.
$1.50 for a hot dog AND drink? amazing.
Congratulations on the completion of your studies!
Really and truly, Alienman, congratulations on graduating! You’re a great example for women on the Internet and IRL in more ways than just that; you speak your mind, you do it well, and you rock the monolid like no other. Coming out of the woodwork just to say that. Also to say that I like the lavender smoky eye; it is very mysterious looking. And the shawl.
Hey, I will have to check out ” My Name is Kim Sam Soon” this holidays, so many things I want to watch this Christmas break! Glee!
LOL, at the BBF comment. He was very girlish in that movie, but I like his personality in real life!
How was the meteor shower? I have never seen a shooting star, and that makes me angry! >:| Hmph! Yummmm sushi, but bowling…eh.. haha, I have never really been a huge fan of bowling. Everyone laughs at my tiny feet size. And there’s no shame in graduating later, lots of people in my program have children, are married and have other degrees! Congrats alienman, you deserved that sushi!
Your lips look very juicy!!! Lucky boyfriend!
hey congrats on finishing up with school!!! I’m a long-time reader, first time commenter. har har. anyway, love your blog. I think you’re super talented and I enjoy your open-ness. Congrats again!
After lurking on your page for many a day, i have decide
to make my debut comment:D
~The foundation looks great on you. Pale is a good colour lols.
Turtleneck for winter perhaps..
love love love the shawl as well